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It is Law. They are great kids. But they fight with one another constantly. I actually hate to see them come home from school. Many people get lost in a maze of trying to sort things out when it comes to getting along with others. Most people try to evoke change in the other for a while, but then either give up or move on. Asking others to change so that you can feel better never works.
If we were speaking with one or the other of your children, we would not guide him or her toward asking the other sibling to change. But this situation is more complicated still — you are on the outside of it, so to speak, wanting to affect change between two individuals. People often attempt to gain control of the behaviour of their children, their employees or the members of their clubs, political parties or churchies by offering rewards for good behaviour, and punishment for bad behaviour.
Rules and punishments that are affected from the outside usually only cause the hiding of the unwanted behaviour, or an even stronger defiant offering of it. Because people innately understand that they are not here living their lives to please others. We often explain that you are the creator of your own experience.
That also means that you are not the creator of the experiences of others. They are the creators of their experiences. It is our absolute knowing that if you believe that your happiness depends upon your ability to control the behaviour of any other, you will never find happiness. For control of others is not possible. There are many who spend their entire lifetimes attempting to gain control of another only to discover that absolute control of another requires the giving up of much of their own freedom, as they turn their undivided attention toward that impractical effort that wastes their life experience because it runs crosscurrent with the Laws of the Universe.
Parents often feel such a strong need to guide their children that these words are hard for them to hear. In simple terms, when you attempt to guide your children from your place of anger or frustratrion because you are out of alignment with you, your influence is flimsy. And the harder I try, the more futile it becomes. Each time you witness the discord between your children, you launch the personal rocket of desire regarding their relationship. For from your personal vantage point, they provided you with detailed contrasting experiences which caused your personal preferences to evolve.
And your personal preferences are your business. So, now your work is simple — you must come into alignment with your desires. In fact, even before their birth, while watching the children of other people, you are flowing your desires into your vibrational escrow.
Even before your physical birth you were making entries into that vibrational escrow account. Your view of them is causing you to flow in opposition to your evolving creation on this subject. So you ignore what your children are doing and utilize your personal ability to focus in a way in which you can feel good. And in doing so you are now fully connected to who you are. Now your words and behaviour are perfectly timed. They evoke less resistance from your children and affect more positive change.
But you are not creating through your words or through your action. You are creating through your personal alignment with the vibration of your own desires. So, when you think about getting your son and daughter to behave differently, you can feel the uphill battle in that. But when you think about guiding your own thoughts, you can feel the posibility in that. Even, in time, the simplicity in that. So, wonderful things are about to take place in your experience. To show someone how to align with Source in the face of circumstances that do not easily inspire is the most valuable guidance that you could ever offer to another.
That is the only guidance you ever intended to offer your children — the power to guide their own life. And, as always, you begin where you are, for you cannot begin other than where you are. My children are driving me crazy. But remember that your work in this process is not just to state the obvious, or to try to figure out what action you could offer to change things. Your work is simply to find some relief for yourself in your own thoughts. And with much less effort than trying to affect any sort of change in behaviour in another, you can release your grip on your oars, and your boat will turn in the downstream flow.
More statements of relief will begin to occur to you. And in time you will be flowing merrily along toward seeing an improvement in the behaviour of your children.
Your power of influence, your ability to evoke different behaviour from others is contingent upon your own alignment with your own desires. You must make yourself feel better before you can attract change.
Their relationship is really between them. The longer you remain in the improved feelings of relief, the more those better feeling thoughts will attract other better feeling thoughts, until in time you will be in alignment with your own desire.
They were very cute when they were little. Sometimes in reaching for an improved thought you only amplify how much you really want something that right now you do not have.
But this does not mean that you are losing ground in your downstream process. So, see this as a fluid flexible exercise whereby you can move anytime in the direction that you choose. Do not lose sight of your objective, which is to find relief, find relief, find relief. This is a part of their deciphering of life. They have the right to respond honestly to their environment. It will be interesting to see how this plays out.
I really have been making more of this than it deserves. It feels good to get my perspective back. These really are great kids. We are all in this together. I like knowing that I have the power to control my own feelings. I like the idea of influencing my dear children to feel better. I like knowing that they get to choose how they feel. I like knowing that I get to choose how I feel about how they feel. Your awareness of your squabbling children has caused you to add to your vibrational escrow.
Your desires regarding these interpersonal family relationships have evolved tremendously because of your exposure to them. And now of your willingness to turn downstream in the direction of that evolved relationship you are flowing towards your ideal.
Not only has nothing gone wrong here, everything is going along exactly as you knew it would, as you made the decision to come into this physical body. You came to live life, to identify things that you desire, and then to give your undivided attention to those desires. That is what deliberate creation is all about.
I have a variety of interests and all of them bring a certain amount of stuff with them. So my house is so full of things that are interesting to me to the point that every place I look I see clutter. I spend a great deal of time just looking for things. But I get bogged down, almost as soon as I begin, because it just feels so overwhelming to clean it up.
So I just keep gathering. And I am burried in my stuff. I know that I have to clean this mess up and get myself organized, but I feel paralysed. In other words, you have to deal with the disorganization in your mind first, and then you can deal with the outward manifestations of it. I should throw this stuff away. I must be crazy to have accumulated so much junk. What was I thinking?
But when I do throw things away before I know it, I realize I did really need them. It gets worse and worse. These statements are all valid, and they are all upstream statements. And they do represent how you feel.
But now, instead of making statements about how things are, or about how they have been, try to make statements that cause you to feel better.
In other words, your goal here is not to make valid declarations of truth about what-is, but instead to make statements that give you a feeling of relief. If you can find some consistant relief about this subject, your energy will shift, and the feeling of being paralysed will be replaces with good feeling action ideas.
An improvement in the way you feel means an improvement in the alignment of energies between you and your Inner-Being, resistance or allowing, upstream or downstream. Many people have interests or hobbies that appeal to them. I can remember my enthusiasm upon finding much of this stuff. I can see how my interest in these subjects caused me to find things that support my interest.
In the same way I enjoed finding these things, I will also enjoy organizing them. It is of value to notice that even though nothing has outwardly changed, the feeling of being overwhelmed has lifted because you focused your thoughts back into alignment with who you really are.
When you give yourself the benefit of the doubt, you realign with who you really are. Some say that the refusal to look at your own shortcomings is a state of denial that is not healthy.
We reply that pointing out your own shortcomings is the greatest state of denial, for it separates you from who you really are. Some people feel criticism for people who look for their own positive aspects, calling them arrogant or self-serving. We reply that to be self-serving is a good thing, for when you care enough to bring yourself into alignment with the greater part of who you are, while you have certainly served yourself, and you know that because you feel so much better, you are now in a position to be of value to others.
But in your depresion you have no value to any other, for you are separate from the stream of Well-Being from which you offer value. Last year we became divorced, and so my ex-husband and I share custody of our child. We live in the same city so that our daughter can move from house to house relatively easily. Also we have the physical logistics of all that working pretty well. In our divorce agreement we agreed that our daugher would be at my house during the week and go with her father on most weekends.
She spends some weekends with me, but most with her father. And we take turns sharing birthdays and holidays regardless of whether they fall in the middle of the week or on the weekend. She is a great girl, seems to be doing alright with all of this. But he just makes things up. And I am worried that he is telling these untruths to my daughter in an attempt to drive a wedge between us. How could I make him stop doing that?
But it is possible. In fact, if you realized that the time you spent together actually caused both of you to expand in a variety of ways, you could both benefit dramaticly from your relationship, even though your marriage has come to an end. What we most want to help you understand is, while your marriage has come to an end, your relationship with this person has not.
And it never will. In the midst of feeling extreme negative emtion or in some situation they are living, they think that the separation from this person will solve the majority of their problems.
But most people find little or no improvement in the way they feel about their ex-partner after the divorce. In fact, most work so hard at justifying why the divorce was a good idea, that they hold themselves in vibrational alignment with all those things about the relationship that they did not want.
And because their vibration did not change, even though the physical details of their lives together did change, their next relationship is fraught with the same uncomfortable issues as was the last. Remember that this relationship, uncomfortable as it was, has caused you to evolve, and your Inner- Being stands right now as the vibrational expression of that expanded being. If you can find good feeling thoughts and train yourself to practise into vibrational alignment with those thoughts, you can benefit from the experience.
But only in finding and maintaining better feeling thoughts can you close that gap and actually be the expanded being that your life has caused you to become. Let us begin the reaching for some downstream thoughts. Begin where you are. I am glad that I no longer have to live with him.
All that is really necessary in order to begin turning in the stream and flowing toward an improved situation is that you discontinue pushing against it. Your goal right now is to just stop paddling upstream. Stop trying to defend yourself, or your position, or your decision for the divorce, or your rightness.
Stop defending anything, and just float in your boat. Like, I am tired of the battle. Compared to the previous statements that flowed with such hostility, these statements are a big improvement. And so you do feel relief. Sometimes just letting go and discontinuing the upstream battle is enough.
No one is really to blame for that. It was something that we both agreed upon. Sometimes with only that much effort you can break through into a much better feeling place. If that happens, take advantage of it and make even more positive downstream statements. I do want to make the best from our situation. We have both moved on with our lives. I want my daughter to feel good about her parents.
I want my daughter to feel good about me. I even want my daughter to feel good about her father. I really feel no interest in fighting. He just makes things up. We are deliberately avoiding the most uncomfortable issues in the beginning of the process, for in doing so it is more likely for you to find relief through your improved thought. If you are aware of the way you feel, and you consistantly reach for thoughts that produce the improved emotion of relief, in time, even these intense negative emotions will have subsided.
Not because your ex-husband has changed, but because you have come into alignment with who you have become as a result of this relationship. When you understand the value of closing your vibrational gap, and of allowing yourself to be the expanded being that your life has caused you to become, you can actually reach a place of adoration of that scoundrel ex, who seemingly caused so much grief.
But all of that in good time. And I do a lot of driving. So I feel constant discomfort as my natural impulses are continually being overridden by his instincts. I really believe that if he wants to drive he should be behind the wheel. And when I am driving, he should let me drive. And that there must be some happy compromise where he occasionally offers the helpful suggestion without overriding all of my inclanations. I am constantly tormented, even in backing out of the parking place wondering if my natural choice based on how I see the car position will mesh with his suggestion.
And probably not safe. In other words, your husband is not doing this to you, but rather the two of you over time have created this scenario. It may have begun during an incident when you really could not decide which way to go, and your mate may have had a clear picture of the best course to take. Often a suggestion from another point fo view can be very helpful. Both of you have not only developed habitual patterns of actions and words, but also of thoughts and feelings about the situation.
From your place of annoyance and frustration you can find no solution. Your driving cannot improve, and we note that you see no reason to improve your driving, for you do not believe that your driving is the problem.
But you also have no way of soliciting anything else from your mate. And so, unless you change the way you feel about this situation, nothing can improve. Many people, watching this scenario might suggest that you just let him do the driving, or that you take separate vehicles, or tell him to mind his own business and keep his ideas to himself. But then even you acknowledge that there are times when his suggestions are very helpful. It is not possible to orchestrate or legislate patterns of behavior without introducing a greater hindrance to the situation.
In other words, if you were to tell him that you do not want him to interfere with your driving by giving you suggestions, you would deprive yourself of another point of view that you often find extremely helpful. For the sake of simplifying your lives, you often believe that you do want that. What you really want is to align with your broader perspective so that you can receive the benefit of that broader view. Your instincts are sharp and clear, and you make good decisions.
And even though your mate may still want to play with you in making the best possible choices as you move about in your vehicle, he would not be offering his suggestions to you because of his doubt in your ability, but instead in his desire to play and co-create productively.
You have no way of changing your mate. You cannot modify your behaviour enough to soothe that. But you can come into alignment with you. And when you do, everything will improve. So, once again your work is the same — make your statements from where you are, but make an effort to find a better feeling, downstream thoughts upon this topic that align with who you really are.
You never suggest that the other people in my life make changes. And we understand why it annoys you that our suggestions are always directed at you, at the choices that you are making, but you can choose to look at that in whether an upstream way or downstream way. I have to do all the changing. Because you cannot control the actions of others. So those thoughts are always upstream thoughts.
But when you understand that you can control the way you feel because you can choose the thoughts that you think, and that with practice you can come into alignment with who you really are regardless of the topic, then not only are you in complete control of the way you feel, but your life must unfold in a pleasing way.
Those are downstream thoughts. Things will only get worse. You do not have to understand the things that may have lead up to this situation. But you must stop offering a vibration here and now that matches it.
Observing what-is only perpetuates it. Trying to figure out how it got started only perpetuates it. Taking action while feeling negative emotion only perpetuates it.
An improved situation will only come once you have improved the way you feel. So, begin where you are and reach for better feeling downstream thoughts. Notice the gradual improvement as you make a statement, and then try to make the next one even better feeling. Sometimes he does offer a helpful suggestion. Two heads are often better than one. His suggestions are well meaning. When we flow together, we really do flow. I appreciate his interest. I do appreciate his help. I am a good driver.
I am a good driver with the good helper. We do make a good team. And I do a good job here. Several of the employees are members of the family who ownes the company.
I am good at what I do. And I really do like working here. Everyone sort of holds back from accomplishing all they could do, and I can feel that they resent me when I try to do my best.
And so I notice that they undermine me in subtle, and sometimes in not so subtle, ways. I like all aspects of the work here, and I can pretty much step in anywhere and do anything that needs to be done. But I notice that most everyone else tries to guide their job activities in the direction of things they would rather do, and they continually shift less satisfying tasks toward me and a couple of other newer employees. So, maybe all work environments are like this.
Also, every time I go to a new place, I have to learn a new environment all over again, make a new place for myself and start again at a lower wage. I need to win the lottery. And so the LOA brings them to you in your next environment, and so on. Whatever is most active in your vibration is what will continue to occur in your experience. But there are positive aspects in seeing what you do not want.
And your Inner-Being has now focused its attention upon those improvements. It makes me so uncomfortable to see them taking their money without doing their work.
When I work in the way I believe I should work, I stick out like a sore thumb. The owners of the company have no idea what goes on in their business. Remember, that the LOA always shines a spotlight on whatever it is that is most active in your vibration.
In time, with focus, your better feeling thoughts will come to be what has the hold on you, so to speak. And your life will then begin to show constant signs of improvement. So now continue to try to find some thoughts that give you a feeling of relief. I am not at a critical point where I need to make a decision about staying or going. I really know very little about the other people who work here. I like the variety of the work I do here. I do have the ability to keep myself happily in balance if I decide to.
I only have my opinion of their opinions of me. I can control my opinions if I decide to do it. Everything that I experience causes me to vibrationally ask with greater specificity for improved situations.
So, actually, everything in this job that bothers me just sets me up for an improved future experience. Your Rating:. Your Comment:. Read Online Download. Add a review Your Rating: Your Comment:.
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